IT SEEMS WE’RE NOT LISTENING PROPERLY
Trying to cut through and parse the rhetorical bedlam of current U.S. politics can be taxing to the point of painful. A useful tool is the advice a dear departed friend, who read voraciously and talked volubly, proffered whenever I lost track of what she was on about: “Listen to what I mean, not to what I say.”
Eccentric as it may seem, if you listen hard and often enough, it works, especially in trying to make sense of politicians, of whom it isn’t much of an exaggeration to point out, can lie as easily as they breath, and some almost as often.
The Republican convention was replete with examples of their other anility, making “turning on a dime” seen snail-like when applied to changing what they once supposedly held as principles and policy positions.
In the primaries, J.D. Vance referred to Donald Trump as“cultural heroin” and a man “unfit for our nation’s highest office”.
Since that wasn’t an impediment to him relishing being Trump’s running mate, and since most of us tend to take the easy way out and listen only to what we hear, it would be useful if Mr Vance could explain what he meant at the time, and how he’d like us to listen to anything he says in the future.
The same goes for Nikki Haley, who once upon a time promoted herself (and was welcomed by many) as the anti-Trump. Unless being the antithesis of that position when she stood on the convention podium was some kind of therapy through self-abasement, we were once again listening wrong.
Confused? Don’t worry, Ms Haley seems to be too.
A willingness and ability to change one’s mind on an issue after careful consideration is a characteristic of intellectual maturity.
However, while a Damascene conversion may have worked for St Paul, trying to claim one on the basis of “what I said wasn’t what I meant” for political gain, is cynicism bloated to self-denigration.
If anyone believed Marco Rubio when he called Trump a “dangerous conman” unqualified to control the nation’s nuclear arsenal, and would “fracture” the Republican party if he were the nominee, he made it clear (in a manner of speaking) in his convention address that he’d like you to re-listen in a different way.
However, much as it may discomfit him, I think I’ll go with the idea that what he said and what he meant were one and the same.
IT’S NOT JUST THE MAGA-MOUTHERS
Republicans and Democrats alike owe it to those whose votes they covet to practice what Kurt Hoefle, one of the great cameramen of my time at CBS called “clear speak”, saying precisely what he thought someone ought to hear, regardless of rank or power.
After the assassination attempt on Donald Trump, President Biden could and should have said of his call for a “bullseye” on his rival: “It was a mistake to have used those words. I regret it deeply. I apologise completely. It will not happen again..”
That’s the kind of “clear speak” with which reasonable people of all political stripes can accept and then move on.
Instead, he tried the usual politician’s sleight of hand (or more correctly mouth), a subtle accusation that people weren’t listening properly: “I meant focus on him .Focus on what he’s doing. Focus on his policies.”,
SAY WHAT YOU MEAN TO DO
One way to help drag America out of the quagmire of deceit, duplicity and obfuscation would be every newspaper in the country publishing, on opposing pages, exactly one month before the election, each candidate’s version of what he/she plans to address and how, in the first 100 days after being sworn in.
Of all people, Bernie Sanders more or less laid out what Biden should or should not do if re-elected, with such clarity it was enough to make one wish he was the geezer running to be the first geriatric president. (Although that may be coloured by the fact that the writer of this blog fits well into the geezer category.)
Trump accepted his anointment with versions of the same promises he didn’t deliver on in four years as president, including the border wall, a vibrant economy at the expense of China and anyone else who sells stuff to Americans and more. He topped it off with affirmations he would have stopped the wars in Ukraine and Gaza before they even began, and will end them on Day One. (Are you listening and hearing, Putin and Hamas?)
Despite all the obvious evidence of falsehoods and fantasy, the MAGA faithful apparently remain convinced that what they hear and what is meant are one and the irrefutable same.
The line that sums up the “what-I-say-what-I-mean” conundrum came from Florida Governor Ron de Santis: “We deserve a better class of politician, one who actually tells us the truth…”
How you heard it depends very much on what you want to hear.
Any odds on the voter split on that?
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2 thoughts on “IT SEEMS WE’RE NOT LISTENING PROPERLY”
You’ve lost me when you mentioned Sanders…
Now I know ( without any doubt ) exactly where you stand politically.
“what you say is what you mean”…yep!
Where’s that, exactly?