WHAT THE WORLD NEEDS NOW IS AN ADJECTIVE
It seems to me that what used to be termed “civil society” has slid into the abyss that is its antithesis. The blame could be attributed to the myriad stresses and strains the modern world imposes on a daily basis, including too many choices. However, the crux of the matter, I think, is the lack of a single adjective: mutual.
The three things we all want, and have every right to expect, are tolerance, understanding and respect. None can be attained or indeed need be granted in toto unless they are shared.
The Christian summation of that is the so-called “Golden Rule” attributed to Jesus in the Sermon on the Mount: “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.”
So how did it come to pass that his adherents often seem to predominate when it comes to intolerance?
Protestants are split among scores of denominations, each of which holds itself as the one true version of faith. They’ve been at war theologically and occasionally by force of arms for centuries.
The Catholic half of the Christian schism is fractured into several “churches” or “rites” still waging age-old grievances. Vladimir Putin used the birthplace of the Russian Orthodox church as one of his spurious pretexts for invading Ukraine.
In a less violent but no less insidious degree, “evangelical” and other would-be Christians wield claims of unassailable virtue to slight the LGBT community, and support politicians who propose laws that victimise and even persecute its members.
When Pope Francis, whom it’s fair to say can lay claim to being a devout adherent to Christian dogma said of homosexuality, “Who am I to judge?”, he all but relegated intolerance of it to a sinful level.
BOTH SIDES
Balancing the scale, why is it those who fit into the acronym LGBT – and many other variants, including among others 2SLGBTQ+, LGBTQI2S, LGBTTQQIAAP -– can be offended by those among us who neither meet nor in many cases even understand the categories, but insist that people who see gender as biologically determined be referred to by the invented category “cis”?
The lesson for both sides is summed up in the phrase “give the devil his due”, from Shakespeare’s ‘Henry V Part 1’. Taken literally it means pay the devil what he’s owed. Figuratively, it translates as an obligation to acknowledge the positive qualities in people or ideas one may not like. Not an easy task, but surely not insurmountable with a little effort and imagination.
A modern example of applying balance and mutual respect (of a sort) has been figured out by the Office of Equity, Diversity, and Inclusion at the University of Pittsburgh. Applicants for a “Talent Center” position now have thirteen “gender choices” .
In alphabetical order: Agender, Female/Woman, Genderqueer, Gender Fluid, Gender Non-Conforming, Intergender, Intersex, Male/Man, Nonbinary, Other, Transgender, Trans Man/Male, Trans Woman/Female.
Anyone whose understanding of the foregoing ranges like mine from “I don’t care” to “I have no idea what most of them mean”, has option 14: “I do not wish to provide this information.”
Even those among us non-plussed by the necessity for the whole conglomeration, the opt-out option is a good one to apply to the “woke” dilemma, which on available evidence is mired in a standoff in which doubting or debating the concept (or more accurately creed), is out of the question and the “other side” is either evil, or stupid or both, depending on one’s level of civility.
To book banning zealots whose vocabulary is often as limited as their reading lists, for example, it’s a pejorative to be shouted. One wonders if they realise refusing to countenance mutual ground with more open-minded fellow countrymen, means sharing mental space with the Afghan Taliban, whose restrictions recently forced the closure of an all-women library in Kabul.
The our-way-or-the-highway mindset is what makes it so ludicrously difficult for Americans to find mutual agreement on the seemingly obvious reasonableness of waiting until people are of an age to be considered mature enough to legally drink, before letting them buy an AR-15 and decide who they might feel like killing.
Far better to let mutual frustrations be vented by gestures.
Last February, a judge in Quebec acquitted a man charged with criminal harassment for giving the finger to a neighbour with whom he was at odds.
In an apparent reference to the Canadian Charter of Rights and Freedoms, Judge Dennis Galiatsatos said: “Flipping the proverbial bird is a God-given, Charter-enshrined right that belongs to every red-blooded Canadian. It may not be civil, it may not be polite, it may not be gentlemanly. Nevertheless, it does not trigger criminal liability.”
Rude is decidedly not the way anyone ought to be if we are to have a civil society, but as the judge ruled, it cuts both ways, which is more than can be said for most social discourse at the moment.
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4 thoughts on “WHAT THE WORLD NEEDS NOW IS AN ADJECTIVE”
Had such a good laugh about the man with the middle finger. Our neighbourhood association has recently installed ‘intelligent’ cameras’, apparently capable of discerning our moods. In case they’re off their game I regularly offer them my middle finger. Since I’m not aspiring to be gentlemanly, I now feel fully vindicated.
The cameras sound truly bizarre
Hi Alan… I so agree with your thoughts.
Just think yourself lucky that you were young and as I did ran amok in the 60’s and could do what you liked and say what you liked and nobody was offended or for that matter cared.….…nobdy got stabbed and didn’t care what colour,race or whatever you were.
I actually feel very sorry for the young people of today .…they appear to be stopped at every move by this stuff called wokery. The young of today want to change the past to make it the same as the present and that doesn’t work. In my day there were on two sexes now there are 74 according to some idiot in the UK.….. the politically correct are now rewriting books to suit their current thinking.….…in my day it was Lady Chatterley’s Lover in a brown paper wrapper.……that was much more fun.……
Rox
Some things do need to change, but re-writing the past isn’t among them. I too feel sorry for young people,today who having the chance, and fun, to find things out for themselves snatched away by those who think they know best about anything and everything.